but if i would ask at a meeting what we could do for men so that they can get out of the patriarchate and feel safe, i’m pretty sure that i would get a lot of blank stares and then an earful.

yeah this is a great point and it’s not even the case that [feminists are uninterested in the issues facing men] because i think a lot of them will agree with fervor that patriarchy is harmful to men and perpetuates the issues they experience.

but shit brother they got enough problems they’re trying to solve on their own time. these aren’t just upstream issues, they’re a separate branch of the same river.