“low support needs” is the preferred term. Still having needs neurotypical people don’t, but not a lot of them. High support needs would be the opposite.

If they could read they would be upset by that.

"there is plenty more but you have seen all the important stuff - go outside and do something "

That is lemmy for me. I have removed communities I don’t want to see, and subscribed to a lot of them and sort by hot.

Once the posts start losing quality (up votes) I move on.

Yes. Lookup raads-r autism test. It’s almost as good as a psychiatrist at diagnosing. If you score high there, chances are high a psychiatrist would as well.