We would like to hear from people on what they think about hotels, restaurants and campsites that are for adults only, and whether they should be banned
Now, why would you make it personal. Why my kids? I wouldn’t want my kids to hang near a person like you (I actually don’t care, but just so you know that it hurts when people say it like that). My point is, this is not a simple question to discuss and the least it needs is dragging it to a personal level. A more important question is should this even be regulated? And where do you draw the line? Like, I don’t think it’s a good idea to allow children in unsafe places and in places that exposes them to nudity or explicit content, but I would also very much object if I wasn’t allowed to a certain restaurant with a kid, but the pets are allowed. Where is the line? Certain age? Certain gender? Skin color? Pet? At which point is it discrimination? In the end, this comes out as a sort of positive discrimination to make people with children feel less alienated and unwelcome. As a guy with kids, I can tell you I’ve felt that way too many times. I would certainly not want to ruin anyone’s good time and in fact - my kids behave in that way. I don’t like being disallowed to take my kids anywhere, though I’m certainly not going to take them to places I don’t feel they belong. Children should be allowed in more places, but children should not be allowed to behave any different than any normal adult - if you make noise, you’re out, just like a drunk obnoxious guest, for example. Unfortunately, it’s a similar situation like with people with pets. People who are the least responsible are the first to take their pets/children where they should not go. It’s the parents who are a problem, not children. Not pets.
That was your choice. People should be able to go places and not have to hang out with your kids.
Now, why would you make it personal. Why my kids? I wouldn’t want my kids to hang near a person like you (I actually don’t care, but just so you know that it hurts when people say it like that). My point is, this is not a simple question to discuss and the least it needs is dragging it to a personal level. A more important question is should this even be regulated? And where do you draw the line? Like, I don’t think it’s a good idea to allow children in unsafe places and in places that exposes them to nudity or explicit content, but I would also very much object if I wasn’t allowed to a certain restaurant with a kid, but the pets are allowed. Where is the line? Certain age? Certain gender? Skin color? Pet? At which point is it discrimination? In the end, this comes out as a sort of positive discrimination to make people with children feel less alienated and unwelcome. As a guy with kids, I can tell you I’ve felt that way too many times. I would certainly not want to ruin anyone’s good time and in fact - my kids behave in that way. I don’t like being disallowed to take my kids anywhere, though I’m certainly not going to take them to places I don’t feel they belong. Children should be allowed in more places, but children should not be allowed to behave any different than any normal adult - if you make noise, you’re out, just like a drunk obnoxious guest, for example. Unfortunately, it’s a similar situation like with people with pets. People who are the least responsible are the first to take their pets/children where they should not go. It’s the parents who are a problem, not children. Not pets.